The LDR Reality

Interracial often means international. Long distance is hard, but not impossible.

Have an End Date

You need a plan. “We will live in the same city in 2 years.” Without a goal, the distance feels endless.

Video Call Dates

Don’t just talk. Do things. Watch a movie together (screenshare). Cook the same meal. Sleep on FaceTime. It simulates “presence.”

Trust

Jealousy kills LDRs faster than anything else. You have to trust them. If they go out with friends, wish them fun. Don’t interrogate them.